25 Reflections: There’s No Place Like Home

We’re home. It’s been a long day and I’ve been up for nearly 30 hours. It was the kind of day with 30 hours in it–I woke up in Zurich at 3 a.m., and now it’s bedtime in the Pacific Northwest. After many months of wandering, we are back where we started. And yet, one…

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25 Reflections: Seeing My Children

One of the greatest gifts of our time in France is that I was able to see my children in ways that I hadn’t seen them before. For many years, our family life has been built around ballroom dance. They were at the studio practicing, I was at the studio in various teaching and leadership…

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Will You Buy All of My Flowers?

There is a moment in my life that has haunted me for 22 years. Each time this memory has floated through my mind, and it has visited a fair amount, I wish that I could alter it. I have longed for a do-over. A do-better. But memories aren’t wishes. Memories are life lived, decisions made,…

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The Words I Wish We Said at Church

Today marks the start of Pride month. As my day has unfolded, the beautiful faces of all of my queer friends have been on my mind and heart in a way that has been unexpected and powerful. And I realized I have some words to say to these amazing souls, especially to those who share…

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